Rosebud\

ok, so what do u do when u feel totally helpless?  how do u help someone who u love with all your heart and u know they are in so much emotional pain, yet all you can do is listen while they pour their heart out and as u sit and listen u r crying on the inside for them but on the outside u r being as brave as u can be and during all of this u just want to reach out and hold them while reassuring them, however, u can’t because this whole conversation is occuring either on the phone or over the internet thru iming.  i know the best thing to do is exactly what i did do and thats being there no matter how far away u may be but being a mom its just not that easy!